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During 2006, My journey took me to Canberra for a medical school interview. I figured to book a place to stay when I arrived, but when I arrived, a major event was happening and all the budget hostels and cheap hotels had no vacancies.

Coming from Singapore, I considered perhaps I could bed down in the terminal – but quickly found the local airport, in contrast to Changi Airport, closes around the clock. Not knowing quite what to do and growing worried, I boarded a city-bound bus and found myself drifting towards the casino, thinking I might spend the evening somewhere that stayed open 24/7. This was not ideal in the best shape for nailing an interview the next morning, however, being a broke student, I couldn’t afford.

We could all use more individuals who show such kindness.

Apparently, I appeared confused because a woman spotted me loitering in the city center and inquired if I was OK. I recounted my situation and immediately she offered I was welcome to sleep on a spare mattress at her university residence at the Australian National University – a perfect solution, given that my my medical school interview was the following day. Generously, she also provided me some free dinner: a leftover sandwiches she brought back her evening job. I had access to the bathroom and a protected spot to rest for the evening.

With hindsight, it’s clear to me what a big chance she undertook as a woman letting a man who was a complete stranger stay in her room. Back then I operated under a bubble of male privilege and not even thinking to the potential danger. Now, as a father, I’m amazed she took that chance – yet very grateful.

I never did attending that university, and I never saw her again, but I’ve never forgotten that incredible gesture of human compassion. It is my wish the universe has returned her act of kindness many times over. We could all use more people who show such kindness.